A new wave of emotional manipulation scams is tricking parents into sending money to criminals—and it all starts with a simple text: “Hi Mom” or “Hi Dad.”
This heartbreaking scam has already stolen millions from families worldwide. Here’s how to spot it, stop it, and keep your loved ones safe.
📱 How the “Hi Mom” Scam Works
Step 1: The Fake Emergency Text
Scammers pose as your child with messages like:
- “Hi Mom, my phone broke—this is my new number.”
- “Dad, I need help urgently. Can you text me here?”
Step 2: Building Trust
They’ll use vague language to avoid detection:
- “It’s me, your son.” (No name used)
- “I’m in trouble and need money fast.”
Step 3: The Urgent Money Request
Once they’ve gained trust, they push for wire transfers, gift cards, or cryptocurrency payments, claiming:
- “I need bail money—please don’t tell anyone!”
- “My rent is overdue, and I’ll be evicted!”
Step 4: Disappearing Act
After receiving the money, the scammer blocks the victim and vanishes.
🚨 Why This Scam Is So Effective
✔ Exploits parental instinct to protect children
✔ Uses urgency to bypass logical thinking
✔ Avoids voice calls (which could reveal a fake voice)
✔ Often targets older parents less familiar with scams
Real-Life Impact:
- A UK mother lost £5,000 after believing her “son” was jailed abroad.
- In the US, one family sent $15,000 before realizing it was a scam.
🔍 How to Spot a Fake “Hi Mom” Text
Red Flags:
🚩 New number (no prior texts from this contact)
🚩 Vague language (avoids using names/details)
🚩 Urgent financial requests (wire transfers, gift cards)
🚩 Refusal to call or video chat
How to Verify:
- Call your child’s REAL number immediately.
- Ask a personal question only they’d know.
- Check for typos or odd phrasing (scammers often use translation tools).
🛡️ How to Protect Yourself & Your Family
1. Set Up a Family Code Word
- Agree on a secret word or phrase only your family knows.
- Example: “If it’s really you, tell me Grandma’s cat’s name.”
2. Warn Older Relatives
- Seniors are most vulnerable—explain the scam to them.
3. Slow Down & Verify
- Never rush to send money.
- Call back on a known number.
4. Report Suspicious Texts
- UK: Forward to 7726 (SPAM reporting)
- US: Report to FTC.gov/complaint
📌 What to Do If You’ve Been Scammed
- Contact your bank immediately (some transfers can be reversed).
- File a police report (helps track scammers).
- Change passwords (in case of broader identity theft).
💡 Final Thought: Spread Awareness
This scam preys on love and fear—but knowledge is the best defense. Share this with family and friends to keep them safe.
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